Submissive: to submit.  It is just that plain, it's just that simple, or so it seems. I find that the greatest pleasure comes from being a submissive. I have tried being dominate, but it just does not work for me. I am a caring, giving person by nature.  I like making others happy and I love making my man happy. I love being his sex toy.  The common misunderstanding about being submissive is that they get used, and abuse. But I do not find that is the case with me.  I get used yes, and yes I have had masters with a strong hand but at the same time they general are doing things to my body that get me off. I do not think of that as being used.
I do enjoy bondage, being tied down.  I have had nylon used on me, don't struggle it will just tighten up and hurt more.  I have had rope used on me and I find that is the easiest to get undone. But what I prefer is silk ties and a feathers to tickle me with.  I love it when a guy ties me down and makes me cum over and over again. How it could be considered abuse when I am the one having multiple orgasms I do not know.  I call it just plain fun.  Call me up and tell me the things you want me to do to myself, or tell me the things you would do to me if I was right there in front of you.